12 Ways to get away from ragging

As we all know that ragging is totally banned, but still in many of the colleges & school ragging still going on illegally.

Here are the ways, which can save you from ragging in any college & school. Just try any one of the options given below, depending upon the type of senior & situation.

1) Friendly nature- your skill of making friends easily can save you.
Try to do friendship with your seniors, as they will help you in every situation in the future.
 e.g.- they will tell you the imp. Questions before exams.. Will review  teachers.. Will you unlimited treats, etc.

2) Relatives/parents working in the same institute - if you tell this to your seniors while giving your introduction to him, then few seniors will  always be afraid to touch you again.

Or tell brother/sister studying at the same institute.

3) Excuse making skill- if you are good at making excuses 
e.g.- suffering from fever, diarrhea,headache/migraine
- Some  senior/teacher has called you urgently
-Your parents are going  to visit you 

4) Crying - sometime crying can help you to escape from ragging, BUT only from the emotional type of seniors

5) Boldness - if you are bold enough then sometime you can scare your seniors from crossing the limits. 
E.g-by blackmailing them about reporting the issue to the police station.

As juniors are always having the advantage of being minority, even if junior lie about his ragging, everyone believes him/her. But to senior no-one cares for his explanation/truth. But as a junior no-one should misuse this power, because it can destroy someone's future.

6) Phone calls - parent's/relatives phone call during the time of ragging can give you a temporary relief at that time.

7) Become dumb & boring- when seniors find you boring or dumb they get irritated/frustrated with you, then they leave you early & won’t call you again. As they always want to get entertainment.

8) Getting help from super-seniors to escape from your senior.

9) Impress your senior with your goodness -like humbleness... Respecting him...obediently following

10) Flatter the seniors (buttering)- with many seniors this formula works.

11) avoid staying in hostel-

this is a another method to avoid the problem, when you can't face it . e.g.- you can become a day scholar, can spend more time safe places like the library, friend's/relative's home,etc.

12) Ignore senior & run away- this is helpful if you have a big campus and a big batch of classmates , e.g- engineering college.

So whenever any senior calls you, firstly ignore him,then you just hide your face & run away, Actually, in this senior won't run after you to scold you , as his dignity & respect comes in between. And if next time he finds you, say you don't remember or deny the charges.

Message:-
Ragging is not that bad when it is there within a certain limit as it makes you rough & tough, teaches you a lot, gives mental stamina & checks/improves your skills.
But seniors need to understand that everyone doesn't have the same level of endurance & patience, so whatever hard time your seniors gave you during your time, there is no need for it to transfer it to our juniors, because with time everything changes & be a part of the change.
"An eye for an eye makes the whole world blind"

When ragging crosses its limit like physical handling or harassment of rights, then you shouldn't remain quiet. Before taking any stupid step. Firstly,you should have the guts to tell this to your seniors that you didn't like it or you won't do that whatever they are saying, at that point of time only, but say it politely.

Then ask help from your friends & then don't hesitate to report this issue with your parents, to institute & to the police station.
Because ragging is a crime..!!
This is your life...live the way you want..don't live in any fear/torture.

-Ankit suniyal (date-24 april 2014)
Based on my 8 years of experience & experiments..:P

PROS & CONS OF BELIEVING IN GOD

Disclaimer - I am an Agnostic theist & there is no motive for me to hurt anyone’s feeling .I am not judging anyone or god. These are my personal views /points ,but read it carefully from starting to the end, to understand it better and ponder over it, at least once  :)

Just imagine for a second that there is no such thing as 'GOD'. All these myths/stories/holy books are written by few couple of people (ancestors), to spread/preserve humanity & wisdom.

Then why they created god in different in forms??

Because when there is such a large population, it’s always easy to spread a message or to control people by dividing them into small groups.

These days people become atheist for fashion or sometimes in anger. Here are the few points to reviews the pros & cons of believing in the god.

Pros:-

1)      Internal peace – it relaxes your minds & thought , giving the internal pleasure & peace.

2)      Key to relieve  stress/tension free- people leave their problems/tensions on God , & get relieved .It’s like transferring our problem to god through prayers and getting assured of a solution.

3)      Positive energy- it fills you with positive energy after reading/listening to holy books/mantras.

4)      Preserves humanity in world- it motivates people to do good things -to get heaven or to get good things in the future..  
e.g.-to decrease their own sin ,they feed other poor people & help them.

5)      Decreases  crime rate- as when people have fear of god, the crime rate automatically decreases when they feel that -god is seeing them & he will surely punish them.

 But unfortunately number of atheist people are increasing.

 













6)      Placebo effect in medicine-  it affects health & mind a lot, in keeping them healthy & in getting better .

7)       Makes you wiser- it feeds your mind with universal truths & nature, gives you wisdom of life. Many unexplained things in this earth could be explained with the help of god. It gives emotional stability too.

8)      Makes you mentally strong-practising (only few) rituals like-fasting (mind control ) makes you strong.
 

9)      Gives confidence- it builds your confidence. E.g. - taking god name before doing tough things or new thing gives you a confidence.



 10) helps you to understand unnatural things/miracles easily

Cons:-

1)      Mislead/violence- people get easily misguided in the name of god leading to violence & fight. e.g . inter-religion fights
  

2)      Discrimination- people start discrimination based on religion, which starts from criticising others religions & rituals.
 Its biggest example can be seen during elections, politicians do that to increase their vote-bank.

3)      Limits you/restrictions- based on ethics sometimes it limits you on many scientific research and many things. Like sometime it stops you from doing what you like  e.g.-eating  non-veg food on few days.

4) Economical loss- people throw money in holy lake/pond/stone cracks. From where money can’t be returned. It affects our economy a lot.

5)       Wastage of things – people waste many things like- milk/food & many things, which could be fed to hunger people shouldn’t be wasted.


 











6)Good & bad omens- they give a lot of restrictions & also creates negative thought & environment.

7)   Superstition -  


    all things cant be explained on name of god , sometimes we need to use our own head & science .

8) people play with your feelings/faith- like babas..or best example could be seen in internet or in mobile texting e.g.- few people make others to share or forward the messages/pics of god to others (black-mail).

9) your beliefs ,money-making thing for others-

Take home-message:-

Actually, all the cons could be removed if we all follow any religion with our full devotion with little rationality, & with being little logistic in following. Few people will always try to take over advantages in many things when they get to know about our beliefs & rituals to get some personal benefits out of it. So we all need to be a little careful(e.g.-politicians) , as excess of anything is harmful.!!

also believing the existence of God may be another way of creating a positive environment around us & also for decreasing the crime rate too..as people are more afraid of God than any law of this country.. :)

for all atheist people: -
when you are logical & rational , then is no harm in believing in god because still all those pros of it can't be neglected. It gonna benefit you only :) ....its not always you are 100 % a theist or atheist...sometimes its in  between these two...& to know this..learn in the pictures shown below..!!

 -ankit suniyal (date-19th april 2014)
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