Thursday, October 22, 2015

16 ways to deal with Eve teasers/stalkers & Despo guys

It's a shameful thing for us that women are not safe in our country. First, they don't get equal right & freedom, now they are not safe also. The incidences of eve teasing & acid attacks are increasing every day.To make this country safe, we need to change the mentality/attitude of men. I feel only education/ awareness can bring that change.Till then

Here are the few things which every woman must do for her safety

a) Always carry pepper spray / knife
b) Share about unusual incidence/ stalking with your family members or close friends. If you are very shy type, you can note all those things down in your personal diary. As these things will help you in the future for reference /complain.
c) Avoid hanging out alone or in isolated places
d) Always keep emergency dial number in your phone.
e) Keep updating your friend/family members about your locations/movements




Here are the 15 options to deal with eve-teasers/stalkers/despo guys. Depending on the situations & your skill, you can use. 

Remember never to get  scared or afraid of anything , fight for your right & freedom.

1) Ignorance is a bliss- ONLY IF YOU CAN.. 



2) Fight back
 If you can show your boldness & strength, just hit back on the right spot.


3) Record all the evidences
You can collect all the evidences like video or audio record , pictures , SMS, chats.



4) Complain to police

With all the evidences, you can complain to the Police , under section 509, 354 , 354 D (stalking)


5) Call him Bhaiya/Anna/brother



6) Always try to take help from your friends /family for moral support & ideas 



7) Let your parents / brothers sort it out for you


8) Search about your stalker/ Despo guy and inform his family/teachers


9) Call women helpline numbers for the rescue

10) Take the help of Social media like newspaper/facebook/whatsapp etc.



11) Use pepper spray /knife


12) Talk to him and make him understand , USE ONLY IF APPLICABLE and never go alone to talk , go with your friends


13) Warn & scare him 
Like - tell him about all the evidences you have to complain.
Or something weird,like telling him that you are ready to marry him now and let's go  



14) Scream for help in public places /whenever in danger - best SOS

15) tell him to back off, because I am committed/ married 


16) say you have some serious infectious disease like HIV, STDs, or make up a new one ;)



- Ankit Suniyal ( date - 22 oct 2015 )