21 myths about masculinity

myths about masculinity

With the time everything changes, so the definitions, norms & attitude in the society also changes with time.
Here are the few myths about masculinity due to which people are misguided and they loose from their own identity/originality in following them.

1) men never cry

2) men never feel pain

3) men never hold babies

4) men never enter kitchen 

5) men never loose any game/race, specially to ladies

6) a real man is a stud

7) real man need to be muscular & macho always

8) a real never cry for a girl/love

9) a man's man is an expert on sex




10) men only always have to bring home the bacon 

11) real man drinks/smoke

12) a man cant be home-maker

13) a real man is abusive and aggressive 

14) men never ask for money from girl and always pays the bill

15) singing/dancing is never made for men

 






16) men never wear a pink 

17) a real man have moustaches/beard

18) a real man never ride a scooty,only bikes

19) a real man never sit behind a girl in a ride

20) men don't change the diapers of their babies

   


21) a real is a man ,who keeps his lady under control 

sorry to say this, but i think till now no such human being is born to control his lady. so please don't try this at your home. Its dangerous :P

the only thing which is possible is EQUALITY :)

DARD / PAIN

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logo ka khafila sa aa gaya,

par subha dard ki barish mai

keval mai akela khada reh gaya,

 

khuli kitab thi jindagi meri,

mere hi ek-ek panno ko noch kar,

kachere ki aag mai jala diya,

par dard ka namo-nishan kahi dikhne na diya,

dil ke tukde kar,

usko aarmon ki aag mai bhun diya,

hatho mai jal ke chaale padh gaye,

lekin dhuya ek ka bhi maine dikhne na diya.

kholi aankhen par dikhe na,

chali saanse par dhadkan na,

cheekhta mai par koi sune na

ladkhada-ta mai par koi sahara na,

aisi meri jindagi, aisa mera dard.............


-by ankit suniyal (date-5th march 2015)